For all the parents.


Recently a dialogue from the TV series Kota factory got really famous- “Maa Baap ke decision shayad galat ho sakte hain par unki niyat kabhi galat nahi hoti”.
Now as much as most people would agree with it, there would be a percentage of them who would be in dilemma. Our parents, have this unwavering attitude that whatever they do for their children is right. I want to ask those parents-why is it then that some students commit suicide in the pressure of becoming something that their parents tell them to? Why is it then that the life partner chosen by the parents abuses her/him mentally or physically and then their child has to adjust to that? Why is it that a girl is suppressed so much by her parents that she hates them and will go against them the minute she gets a chance? Or why is it that nearly 7% of the population of India is suffering from depression, most of them being the youngsters.
These incidents are very common in our society and in return we are expected to “adjust” with these happenings because at the end- why would parents do something that will harm their children? They wouldn’t. But we also see that they are more concerned about “log kya kahenge” more than what their child wants. They are bind by the society. They understand things from the view of an individual of the society and not as a ‘parent’ ; and its understandable too- they want their children to be well established and have a good name in the society. But in the meanwhile, they forget to understand their children. No, I am not saying that parents are wrong. They might be right according to them but they may not be right about everything.
So parents, it’s a request to listen to your child- whatever they have to say. Don’t take decisions on their behalf everytime because you won’t be there always (it’s a hard truth but you can’t ignore it). Scold them when needed but also find the reason of their mistake. Be the pillar in your children’s life- not the one they are tied to but the one they lean on.

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